when i give you advice about love, take it with a pinch of salt

had a talk with one of my dis earlier about love. somehow it paralleled the situation that i was in a few months back, about people you love not replying to your messages or what so ever, and how it drives you to worry excessively and end up showing distrust for the people you love.

my dear di, i've only given you advice from a perspective that is love for a family member, like brotherly love, parental love etc. but not love for a person that you would want to have a relationship with.

so take it with a pinch of salt. you might think that there is wisdom and logic in it. but i don't know how much it applies to love in a relationship.  after all, these are words from someone who haven't been in a relationship yet.